The Yelling,
The Slammed Doors,
The Failing Grades,
The Disrespect,
The Risky Friends,
The “I Don’t Care” Attitude…
it’s breaking your heart
and tearing apart your family
You’ve tried…
talking, punishing, rewarding, therapy, medication, taking away his phone & video games — with little to no positive results. You’re not alone, and it’s not necessarily your fault.
But if you don’t act now, these patterns can become permanent — affecting his future and your own sanity for years to come.
This is why I wrote:
Inside this straightforward,
actionable ebooklet
you’ll discover:
- A proven sequence that hundreds of clients have used to stop the chaos and rebuild respect, responsibility, and connection (even if your son is completely shut down or defiant)
- How to regain control of your home without constant lecturing, screaming matches or empty threats
- The exact responses that de-escalate confrontations and get him to actually listen
- The #1 mistake parents make that keeps their son stuck (and how to fix it in months, not years)
This is for you
if you’re dealing with:
- Constant power struggles that leave you, your coparent, and even other children, frustrated and drained
- A son who barely speaks to you except to argue or demand
- Guilt that you’ve “failed” as a parent
- Worry that if you don’t fix this soon, the window will close forever
The teen-early 20s years are a critical time for your son. What happens in this window will affect everything about his future. I know you want to give him the best chance for happiness and success in our highly complex and competitive world. There’s no shame in asking for help, but there’s often regret for not asking sooner.

Meet the Author
Tom Bresnahan
Counselor – Coach – Intervention Specialist – Father
I was once that 15-year-old kid – furious, isolated, struggling with everything that mattered, convinced no adult understood me. That experience led me to wanting to help young men who are stuck where I once was. After earning degrees in Psychology and Business I built successful careers in Hollywood, Real Estate & Women’s Fashion before coming full circle as a certified Counselor, Coach and Intervention Specialist.
For 13 years I’ve worked with over 400 teen-20s sons struggling with grief, shame, rage, screen addictions and the quiet fear they’ll never figure out who they are. I help them understand their confusing emotions and unconscious sabotaging drives through talk therapy as well as weekly actions to take, with accountability and status updates via text support and phone check-ins with him and you.
This two track Process & Approach is the game changer you’ve been praying for. It delivers lasting results so he can finally overcome addictions, reduce or eliminate medications, clarify goals, take decisive action and thrive with agency and purpose.
What Clients Are Saying
You deserve a home with peace again.
Your son deserves a future he can be proud of.
The 5 Proven Steps are waiting
– start using them today.


Get “Back On Track”
and begin turning things around now.



